~I arrived in the city about 4 pm, after being stuck in traffic for a while. The easiest, although not fastest, way for me to get here from home is by bus. But when we hit upper Manhattan I just want to say, "Let me off here, I'll take the subway or walk the rest of the way." And it would be faster, but of course they can't do that. But at least I got here; NSLS's flight was canceled because of "possible" thunderstorms, and she couldn't get another one that was affordable and would get her here in time. So I am bummed not to get to see her and because I have to go to this party alone. And if you looked at my
Myers-Briggs score, you'll understand why I'm not so looking forward to this.
~The party in question is of course Elder Son's engagement party. I will be meeting his fiancee for the first time, as well as all of her large family. I'm sure they are all lovely and it will be fine, but it is still a lot of people who know each other and me who knows only Elder Son.
~But I will go with a smile on my face, and have a good time. I've already inadvertently ruffled Elder Son's feathers about this party (I didn't mean to, really I didn't) and I know it is important to him.
~It's amazing how quickly I slip right back into the city--in some ways it feels like I never left. As I was coming up from the subway I was thinking that I wouldn't run into anyone I knew since it's been 2 years since I graduated, but I hadn't gone half a block before I ran into someone who graduated a year before me and still lives in the greater metro area.
~Some things have changed but many are just the same. The scaffolding has moved of course--there's ALWAYS scaffolding somewhere around here--it just seems to move from place to place;I used to joke with the Kid that we ought to invest in a scaffolding company. There are more fancy new apartments, and a couple of familiar places are gone (including one of my favorite shoe stores!) but for the most part it feels the same.
~NSLS and I had planned to have Thai food tonight, but since she didn't get here and I never had lunch , I just went to get a sandwich from my favorite neighborhood deli, a place which deserves its own post not because of the gourmet food (it's more like comfort food) but because of the wonderful person who runs it. Then I headed out to do some errands--to Rite Aid to buy a toothbrush, to Bed Bath and Beyond to get a gift card for Elder Son and fiancee (who need a pseudonym), and ended up just walking around for a while. I really miss that. Those same errands where I live now would mean getting in the car and driving to two separate shopping centers. It might have been quicker but it wouldn't have been nearly as interesting.
~It always surprises me how many stores close at 8:00 in the city that never sleeps. Really.
~As I was walking home about 9:30 it occurred to me that I was very hungry, and that I was only a block from Whole Foods--another place that I miss mightily. So I stopped and got some humus and chips and some blueberries and yogurt, and to just admire all the great stuff Whole Foods has. I know that WF has its warts, but compared to where I normally shop, it is so wonderful.
~It's hot here--not unbearable but definitely sticky. There was a nice breeze stirring as I walked back, and now it is thundering--I think there will be a storm--in fact, even as I write that I hear raindrops starting to fall. Tomorrow will be a very long day, so I guess I should think about going to bed.